my choices will be the right choices

i just want to talk about my choices in life.  right or wrong we do make our own choices.  God gave us the right to choose and what choices we make we have to live with the consequences be them good or bad.  
as everyone  who has been reading my blog knows i am a christian.  i made that choice on my own and im very thankful for that.  the other thing my blogging pals know that ive been dating tyler payne for 8 months now.
its bothers me when people at school the ones who im friends with talk to me about him.  they ask if hes a good kisser, how far have we gone, will we be going all the way.   i let them know first of all its none of their business and that i will save myself until marriage.  but im going to tell the truth here on my blog.
when tyler and me started to date we decided to sit down and talk about it first.  we both had gone thru a purity class at church and our youth leaders frown upon dating. they dont say that going on dates is a sin but they do say that the way kids are dating now a days it leads to sin.  
we both started off as friends but we really liked each other.  so we talked to our parents and our youth leader and said can we go out on dates but keep it pure?
so they said ok why dont you two discuss "rules" about your dates and make everything clear and open on paper.  so one night in oct.  we sat at my kitchen table with our bibles and we prayed and we wrote out our own "rules for us dating". 
we said we would not neglect our friends and we would hang out with our own friends as much as before.  we would go out on dates, like to movies, dinner, coffee and stuff.  we decided that we would hold off kissing...
we will be careful about hugging that it doesnt lead to anything else.  we will not do anything to temp the other about sex.  
our first date wuz a movie and dinner, it wuz so fun. we also have gone to 2 school dances and coffee.  those are our dates.  just for fun we still hang out as friends, bike riding, walking, going to each others house because we love to hang out and play music.  the only "kissing" we have done is give each other a kiss on the cheek and we wont go for the lips until we decide we want to and thats no ones business when we do.
the last 8 months have been  so fun, when we do go on dates we have a wonderful sweet time and it can be so romantic.  when we are just hanging out as friends we find we love to write songs together or just sing.  he wrote me a lovely song that made me cry.  but we do spend time apart.  at school we dont hang out much, im busy with my friends and hes off dong guy things, on the weekends we dont see each other every minute, but we do see each other every sunday.  i love hanging out with my friends and talking girl talk with them that doesnt involve me talking about tyler.  he hangs with his friends and does guy stuff what ever that is.  so when we do hang out its always good and fun.  after 8 months we have not even argued and not a fight.  
tyler is my second bf , over a year ago i wuz dating a guy and we hung out all the time and texted and talked on the phone, we were never apart.  guess what?  i wuz so sick of him after about 3 months and he wuz sick of me.  he started dating another girl the day before i dumped him.  so take the advice of my youth leaders peeps.  if your going to date, take it slowly and enjoy the ride.
cheerio
♥ U tyler ♥ 

•                          this is tyler playing
•                       one of his new songs 
•                       for me♥ 
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